If you’re a parent or carer of a school-age child with special educational needs (SEN), do you want to feel more empowered to request the support your child is entitled to thrive during their school life?
We wrote this article after watching Eva Atkins’ webinar on how to secure the right SEN support for ND kids in school. Eva is an education lawyer, and a neurodivergent herself with three children who required SEN support in school.
There are three main stages of your child’s educational experience at which you can request support for the following areas of need:
In this article we will explain what those stages are and what support, reasonable adjustments and resources are available.
It’s crucial to know that you can ask for SEN support without having an Educational Health and Care Plan (EHCP) in place. You can even start the process before you have a diagnosis of neurodiversity or other needs.
Schools have an obligation to put in accommodations under Quality First Teaching, however if your child has more complex needs or requires more resources, you need an EHCP.
Once you have a diagnosis it is possible to ask for reasonable adjustments to be made to enable your child to thrive in the school environment. These adjustments should be discussed with your psychiatrist and SENCo at the school and a quarterly review should be organised with your child’s teacher.
If an EHCP is required, you’ll need to get extra adjustments put in place to help your child.
It’s so important to persist to get children and young people the educational provision and school placements or Education Otherwise Than At School (EOTAS) to enable them to thrive throughout their education.
There will be challenges to face in seeking that support but parents should feel empowered to face them and understand their child’s rights and entitlements to know what to ask for.
Let’s take a look at some of the challenges.
Getting acknowledgement that your child needs support
It’s common for parents and schools to see things differently. Schools may see nothing wrong and view parents as combative and overprotective. While the parents see their child struggling and in need of support.
An EHCP is often seen as the holy grail, providing all the solutions. But in reality an EHCP is not enforceable legally if it isn’t written well. If it is written well, the school or local authority may not be executing the provisions leading to the child not receiving the support they need. In this case, the local authority can be held to account via a judicial review or local government Ombudsman.
Children with challenging behaviour can find themselves excluded (from trips, activities or sent home early to cool off) permanently, for a fixed term, or put in isolation. Some of these exclusions are lawful but many are not. And it is often the case that Neurodivergent children with ADHD, autism or other conditions which make it difficult for them to regulate their responses, are more vulnerable to exclusions, leading to a negative cycle.
Out of school exclusion / physical or mental health / school refusal
All children have a right to suitable full-time education and under the S19 EA1996 act, local authorities must make arrangements for suitable education at school or EOTAS for children of compulsory school age. That includes children who cannot attend ‘regular school’ for reasons relating to illness or exclusion.
Children with SEN have the following rights:
Does my child have Special Educational Needs?
If your child has difficulty learning, they may have SEN. This is from a holistic point of view, so not just from cognition and academic aspects, but taking into account communications, social and emotional aspects of school, problems with their mental health, physical or sensory needs.
It can be challenging to identify difficulties if your child is academically able and ahead of their peers, but if they have challenges in other areas such as social, emotional, communications or access to the general school setting, they may have SEN.
Is my child disabled and is the label helpful?
While it’s not always helpful or desirable to label your child as disabled, when it comes to securing SEN support it can be helpful and give you rights you might not ordinarily have.
According to Section 6(1) of the Equalities Act 2010, you’re disabled if you have:
The social model of disability illustrates that society should be fit for purpose for all, no matter their ability. And while we might not want to refer to our child as disabled to them (their brains are wired differently), it’s helpful to have that classification in order to gain adjustments to help them.
If your child has SEN but no EHCP there are different ways of gaining the support your child needs. These avenues differ from state schools to private schools.
In state schools, schools have a duty to use their best efforts to secure SEN provision for any child struggling in the school environment. These provisions may vary from 1:1 support in the classroom to small social skills groups and minor adjustments.
Chapter six of the SEN Code of Practice (2015) lays out how a school should achieve this.
SEN support is a holistic picture of your child. A record is made of the findings and a support plan put in place. The process should follow this simple model:
ASSESS – Identify what the problems are: Attainment (tests), behaviour (observations), Screening assessments, external support (CDC, CAMHS, S&L, OT), parents and pupils views.
PLAN – Teachers and SENDCO’s meet termly (separate and in addition to parents evening) with staff to agree in consultation with parents about adjustments, strategies, interventions and support with a clear date for review.
DO – Class teacher and SENDCO work together in effective implementation of support day to day for pupils.
REVIEW – effectiveness of support and interventions should be reviewed regularly (agreed date) and revised. The parents should be involved in this at least termly in addition to the usual parent evenings. Individual Learning Plan (ILP)/Individual Education Plan (IEP) – a record of these outcomes, action and support should be given to all staff and parents to make sure plans are happening.
All staff working with each pupil should be made aware of their needs and be involved in seeking outcomes, support and teaching strategies. The decision to involve specialists can be taken at any time and should always involve parents.
An annual report should be provided and parents should be called in once a term to have a discussion around the effectiveness of the support provided.
The next two parts of this series where we demystify SEN support in school can be found here.
For more guidance, we created a course “Raising Girls with ADHD” which goes into condensed learning of what parents need to be aware of.
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